Dynamic - the official term for any established BDSM relationship were there is some form of power exchange. This can be dominant &...

Drop - an emotional and physical response to the endorphin and dopamine levels returning to normal after a scene. Known as "Sub Drop" or...

"In the kink community, a strawberry is someone who has few kinks or fetishes and my not consider themselves to be very kinky but also...

"The Kink and Polyamory Aware Professionals Directory (KAP) is a service offered by NCSF dedicated to providing the community with a...

"Bootblacking is the practice of caring for boots, shoes, and other leather apparel." - The Bootblack Wiki We couldn't say it much better...

"A person who participates in unconventional sexual practices, especially BDSM" - Dictionary.com This is the term used by a lot of our...

"A source of individual psychological discomfort; something that repels one." - Wiktionary This is a common slang word used within the...

"A sexual fixation on an activity or object" - The Dictionary of Scene-Friendly Terms Not a very good explanation of what it means but a...

We know how difficult is it to host a kinky party ( you can read about our recommendations here ) but there's also a big reason why we're...

Fetish After Dark is, at our core, an event planning and performance group, and we love BDSM events. They can be difficult to find,...

We're becoming a regularly respected reference site, who knew? BDSM stands for "Bondage Domination Sadomasochism" OR "Bondage Discipline...

So, you want to host a kinky party, but you don't know where to start? Our first suggestion would be to contact Fetish After Dark and...

Private dedicated rooms or spaces are a privilege that most can't afford or simply can't manage with space and household obligations. ...

Arguably the most focused and subtle of all of the kinks, sensation play is kind of poorly named as one could argue that ALL kinks...

Last year we dropped a post about how to get reasonably priced fetishwear (You can read it here) Recently a local business pointed out...

We have a Fetish After Dark staff member who is a specialist in sex & disability. Since July is Disability Pride Month, we thought we'd...

We teach a class on the history of BDSM (you get to read a dirty Sumerian hymn to Inana from around 3,100 BCE), and a good part of that...

Fetish After Dark works hard to be a positive example of ethical kink and BDSM for both our community and the general public. As a...

LOTS of events are coming up and you can find Fetish After Dark at them all! April 29th, you can find our tent and spanking booth at...

We've gotten asked why we, a group of event planners and fetish performers, do so much work to support a local charity. Triad Health...