It's June, and the middle of Pride Month. Here in NC, we tend to spread it out from now through September because it's so overwhelmingly hot and humid, and no one wants to see a leather daddy go down from heat stroke. We wrote about this a few years ago, but it seems we need to do so again. There's been a few recent posts on a lot of crunchy mom's blogs about should kinky people be allowed at Pride. Yesterday, Instinct Magazine put out an article about it and we're a litt

Many of our old regulars as well as new folks have asked what's up with Fetish After Dark. Are we still doing things? Do we still perform? Who even are we? It's been almost 5 years since we last had a public event that we hosted, so we figured it would be good to have a formal update to the status of us as a group and our event space search. The Fetish After Dark events : YES we do exist. And yes we are still looking for a new event space. The pandemic and political cl

We're a little tired of the ongoing love of "spicy" romance books trying to hint at kink & BDSM. We completely accept that it's up to the author's comfort and experience level, but there's a lot of chatter about some books being really kinky, and they just aren't. Fetish After Dark really cares about your late-night reading, and here are some that kept us up at night. We also aren't going to include any of the Shades of Grey and similar books, which are written by people w

Several members of Fetish After Dark have worked professionally in the adult film industry. We've worked as builders, performers, riggers, and advised on presenting authentic kink for public consumption. We've also seen the results of what happens to folks who consume too much of a good thing. Obviously, there's some productions that are unethical, and those are deeply problematic not only for us as performers, but for society in general. While we obviously have deep feel